5) In honor of the festival of lights beginning tonight, the Jewish Center of the Hamptons hosts a Hanukkah Party on Sunday. Look for 'arts and crafts, latkes, soofganiyot (jelly donuts), olive oil pressing' and fun times. Sunday, 10am. 44 Woods Lane, East Hampton; (631) 324-9858
4) Starting tonight, stop by Candlelight Fridays at Wolffer Estate Vineyard, the winter version of the winery's popular Sunset Fridays. Mulled wine and music. No cover. Friday, 5-8pm. 139 Sagg Road, Sagaponack; (631) 537-5106
3) In Southampton, the Parrish Art Museum presents Students View American Landscapes, a student art show opening in conjunction with the museum's Winter Festival. Free. Saturday, 2pm. 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton; (631) 283-2118
2) Who doesn't love the Nutcracker this time of year? The Hampton Ballet Theatre School presents the Tchaikovsky classic this weekend. Tickets: $20 ($15 for children under 12). Friday 7pm, Saturday 1pm and 7pm, and Sunday 2pm. John Drew Theater at Guild Hall, 158 Main Street, East Hampton; (631) 237-4810
1) For the fearless: the 5th Annual Polar Bear Plunge hits the waves this weekend. Jump in the Atlantic and help raise money for Human Resources of the Hamptons. $25 registration fee. Saturday, 10am. Coopers Beach, Southampton; (631) 283-6415